Have you already begun to fret over keeping that New Year's resolution to shape up in the coming months?

Experts say while wishing will not make it so, visualizing your trimmer, fitter self can help to set you on the right path.

"Visualize your success," advises fitness and wellness instructor Shirley Archer. "Imagine a perfect day where you are at the fitness level that you want. How would you look and feel and what would you be able to do easily if you enjoyed your ideal fitness?"

Then, says Archer, the author of Fitness 9 to 5, get to work on specific goals.

"The typical mistake is being too vague and too large," she says. "Instead of 'I want to lose weight,' say, 'I will walk 10 minutes Monday through Friday.' And don't make those goals harder until you've achieved the easier ones."

Big goals are fine, Archer believes, as long as you break them down, and learn from, and forgive, your inevitable backslides.

"Ask yourself why you did that, but be emotionally neutral," Archer says. "Get rid of that self-critic."

She calls it training from the inside out and admits it's easier said than done.

"Studies show it typically takes about eight weeks to make a new habit stick," she says. "So you have to work hard to change that mindset."

January is the busiest month for new and returning clients at Equinox, the chain of fitness centers, says Geralyn Coopersmith, who oversees the education of the training staff.

"It's the same conversation: 'I need to lose some weight and I need to tone up'," she says. "We encourage them to project themselves a year from now: What would the transformation look like?"

Then, she says, she reminds them that Rome wasn't built in a day.

"Coming in on Jan 3 with guns blazing is not a good strategy. Slow and steady wins in fitness," she says. "It's not as sexy as 'get into shape in 30 days', but you didn't get out of shape in 30 days."

Instead, Coopersmith favors a customized approach.

"Fitness is not one-size-fits-all," she says. "We want people to have an assessment even if they aren't seeing a trainer regularly."

She says clients left entirely to their own devices can make ineffective choices.

"It is human nature for people to gravitate to things they're most efficient at - what they need the least," she says. "Sometimes you have to go against the grain."

Kevin Burns, spokesperson for the American Council on Exercise, urges swapping those grandiose dreams of enormous changes for two or three smart, specific and measurable goals.

Then write them down.

"Instead of saying, 'I'll exercise every single day in 2012', set a schedule, set a timeline, and be flexible but specific," says Burns, a Minnesota-based fitness trainer for more than 20 years. "A New Year's resolution is a marathon, not a sprint."

He also suggests looking back at your resolutions for the passing year, at what worked, what didn't and why.

"If it failed last year it will likely fail again," he says. "Why start another year with failed resolutions?"

Whatever your path to fitness, Coopersmith says, realize it's going to take a little time.

"The difference between success and failure is keeping your promise to yourself," she says, "and making a promise you can keep."