Today is a day when it is traditional in my home country for families to gather, share a big turkey dinner, stuff their faces, and either watch football on TV or toss a ball with the kids outdoors. It's also a day to try to avoid awkward topics such as politics or religion.

Oh, yes, and to be thankful - it's Thanksgiving, after all. (Canadians celebrate in October.)

I suppose the first big dinner of China's Spring Festival may be a rough equivalent, with family togetherness, great food and a dollop of awkwardness over young adults' relationship status.